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I am not a domestic goddess. The opposite, in fact - I'm more of a domestic goblin. So today, when I was emptying my bin, and found...

Recently, I was in the process of hiding a key for the cleaner, when I caught myself thinking some very uncharitable thoughts about my neighbours and their potential for criminality. For the record, they are all utterly lovely - I'm very lucky. So I tutted, and said to myself: "I hate my brain." And then I remembered - I don't hate my brain at all. It's tiresome at times, but I know that every single part of my mind is doing its best to make me happy and keep me saf

I'm not a fan of imperatives: 'you have to', or 'you must not ever', or 'you must always'. I'm not really talking about the laws of the land - generally speaking, I'm a law-abider (as long as you don't look at my speedometer, ahem).

You know that dream you've been putting off? What's the worst that could happen if it came true?

Why do you react strongly to certain things and not others? Why are you having that emotional response?

Are you looking for that magic bullet that will fix *all* the things? The cure? You're not alone.

The healing journey is rarely linear - more often, it's a rollercoaster of ups and downs.

I hope the sun is shining for you - but if not, that's ok - you can love yourself anyway.

Your brain is doing its best - but it's not *totally* reliable.

Why on earth SHOULD you feel your feelings, when they're so hard to take?

Hi gorgeous, I had such a great conversation with one of my lovely clients today, on the nature of acceptance. I ask you - WHY on earth...

We generally learn life's lessons in two ways: the easy way and the hard way. Joy and pain. And it's true that most of the time we get to...

One of the biggest stumbling blocks I see with my clients is the attempt to control what cannot be controlled - and the distress caused...

Let me state for the record that I am BLOODY COLD. Ok, that's that dealt with. Now, down to business. Feeling good. LOLZ. Joking aside...

My clients are a never-ending source of absolute gold - they often teach me things I need to know, and it becomes a positive feedback...

Hi gorgeous. Storytime: Back in ye olden days, I lived in South London. My mum lived in North London. I was not blessed with a sense of...

If you've been around for a while but never had a session with me, you may be wondering: what's it's actually like to work with me -...

I spent a lot of years not loving myself - even now it's very much a work in progress. Like the proverbial onion, I keep pulling back...

I picked my son up from his prom last night, (he looked so handsome and happy, I'm a proud mum) - and even though it was after 11pm when...

How can you tell if you've truly accepted something and let it go, or if you're just suppressing how you really feel about it? It's a...